How many of us have them?
Ones we can depend on
Before we go any further, lets be
Friends ~Whodini (old rap group)
This is the song I kept singing in my head when I decided to blog about this topic. I use that term loosely because I suck at the blogging thing.
I've never been the type of person to make or have a lot of friends. I don't know what it is about me, but I'm just not one of those people who attract others. I think once people get to know me they like me, but until then they just pass me by. I don't right that for sympathy, but just so you understand what I mean. So moving on to the meat of this post...I want to know how many "real" friends do you have? Do you count your "online" friends in your "real" friends circle? I'm VERY active online..I Facebook, Twitter, Blog and I am also the member of a few online groups. I tend to share a lot (sometimes WAY WAY too much information) about myself. I'm just wondering if others do this or am I just the big LOSER who is lonely and wishing for a friend.
Every time a join a new online circle I find so many similarities with people. I find myself wishing they lived closer because we could be really good friends. Then I think that was a really stalkerish thought and shy away. What this really comes down to is I'm looking for friendly (and a little kick ass) support in all areas of my life. The trouble is at 37 most have already found their friends for life and they are happy with that. This is a regular conversation I have with my husband who has a ton of friends and can't relate to how I feel. Men are different, if they scratch in the same spot then they are BFFs for life. I've never spoken to anybody else about this and writing about it is giving me serious agita. Feels like I'm posting an add on match.com or something. With that being said I'm going to lower my loser flag and add another goal to the list.
*Goal-This is a non weight related goal. As you see I got the nerd thing going strong here. I've been trying desperately to get my blog looking pretty but I just can't do it. IT'S HARD!!! I want to make a pretty blog...I want to learn some basic coding or at least get a nice font and color.
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